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Wednesday 29 July 2015

JapAniMangaNight 2015

I know, I know it's July and I'm uploading stuff from May „wink“-Emoticon But I can say it was worth it to wait „wink“-Emoticon


I couldn't manage to shoot a lot of people, actually I had 2 shootings at the JAN. BUT I actually can say I surpassed myself with these two Series :) 



Wednesday 22 July 2015

Scotland 2015

I really wanted to share my impressions about Scotland with you „smile“-Emoticon
So first of all it was a little bit chaotic, because we didn't planed a lot, because the weekend befor was JAN ^^'

But after all we managed to see a lot of things eventhought some we were missing thanky to our bad time scheduling 8D


Well what did we see „wink“-Emoticon The first day we were walking around in Edinburgh and we landed in I guess some sort of suburbs ^^' The next day we were going to the Pentland Hills, a regional park. The picture is one of some that I shoot there. The landscape is beautiful and a little bit fairy like xD I mean there was a small forest and the floor was covered with moss *-*

Another day we were going with the train to Inverness and wanted to visit the Loch Ness. Sadly we were arriving very late so we decided that we don't take the bus. Instead we were walking along the river Ness ^^' Sadly the weather begun to change and it started to rain and getting colder *bbrrr*


On our last day we were going back to Edinburgh and made a Whisky tour.
Next morning we were going back with the plan and when we landed in Switzerland we were going crazy xD 10°C in Scottland and 30°C in Switzerland and we were packed in clothes like it is near winter xD

Monday 20 July 2015

The ADD Serie - How does it affect outsiders?

Last time I explained or at least tried to explain how ADD feels like and how it affects ourselfs. This time I really want to flip the coin and see how the unconcerned person is affected.
The post is for every one that stands near a AD(H)D Person like parents, partner or even close friends, but also for the concerned person it can be helpfull, so you actually can understand how hard it can be for others to understand.

One thing that can be is that the AD(H)D person is forgetting the time or even appointments. They don't do it because they don't care or don't like you they just forgott. If there is a important appointments please remind us to set up an reminder or just remind us ^^

Another thing is, because we have such a big issue on concentrait and focusing we often have to ask same stuff again and again, we are very sorry for that really!

One thing is also, that we have sometimes mood swings. And because we don't understand them, we get angry.

So for an outsider, who hasn't ADD it can be quit irritating. Because we look like we don't listen or/and aren't intressted. Also sometimes in one moment we are extreamly happy and full of joy and the next moment every thing sucks and we are sad. And sometimes we get angry and freak out. Then we can't controll ourselfs, we just see red. That can lead to just shouting aroung or cring or even (especially when it is a child) flail around. After we freaked out let us some time to cool down, especially whene we walk away. Normally we will regret what we sad or what we have done. But when the ADD person worked on him/her self the amount of "outbreaks" decrease and can get to nearly zero.

So in fact our behaviour affects and mystify 
the "outsider". We can be very nerve-racking, BUT also we can be very faithful, empathetic and it never gets boring aroung us ;)

Hope I could explain how the people without ADD feels like around ADD affected.  

Tuesday 14 July 2015

The ADD Serie - How do it affect people concerned?

Hi again :)

Because it is really hard to explain how ADD affect people concerned
 I just will write what's coming in my mind. ^^

So I didn't eplained why AD(H)D people have problem with concentrate on thing. So here a explanation. 
Well you could say we have a damaged brain, but actually it isn't...it just works not the same way than others.  
The easiest way to explain it then is with a "filter" door. People without AD(H)D can close this door when there are unimportant information and open it for important stuff. A person with AD(H)D can't, the door don't exist it's just a doorframe and every single information can go throught. 

Monday 13 July 2015

The ADD Serie - What is it?

Hello folk!


This Post Serie is something I really, really want to do, because on my way trough life I realized more and more how much ADD affected me and also my surrounding. So I will start a Serie about it, what it is and how it affects the person who has it and their surrounding. Also I would like to write what you never ever should say to a ADD person and how you should "behave" in different situations. Briefly what ADD is and the advantages and disadvantages.

First of all what is ADD?

ADD or ADHD is the abbreviation for Attention Devicit (Hyperactiv) Disorder. As you can see there are two different "types" of this Disorder. The one who isn't hyperactiv (harder to diagnose) and the one with. I can just speak for the ADD part, because I'm not hyperactiv. But the main characteristics are the same.

Wednesday 8 July 2015

Fantasy Basel 2015

In this post I will write something about the Fantasy Basel 2015.


The fantasy basel occurred for the first time from 14.May till 16.May in, well you can guess it ;), Basel. 
Fantasy Basel was something of everything and for the first time it was great. But they have to expand next year, because for the price it was a little bit to little. But they laid a pretty good base for next year!


I was curious, so I was there for all 3 days. As you can guess this three days were full with talking to friends and strangers, collecting impressions and taking picture…a lot of pictures ^^’.
      JuubeiChanXx as Leslie Withers                                           SHI0N Cosplay as PantySimon Redfield as Sebastian Castellanos                                     Source: Panty & Stocking
           Source: The Evil Within

Wednesday 1 July 2015

Fashion Shooting with SuiBui

I really wanted made a fashion shooting, so I asked a friend of mine if she would like to dress up and stand in front of the camera :D

It was very cold but also extreamly funny 8D as always with her :)

I tried to focus more on the beauty editing as I would usually do ^^
And I tried some black&white editing. I usualy don't like this kind of picture but I think it fits well.

You may ask yourself, why I don't like black&white pictures.
Well the reason is very trivial. I love when the pictures have a huge load of color so it looks like in a dream or in a fairy tale but also looks real.


I very often don't do a lot of retouch. The standart is some light beauty retouch (eliminate pimples, soften skin, eliminate flighing haires and sometime brightening the eyes, so that they pop a little bit out) and contrast and brightness adaptations.

Normally I would "rush" trough it, but this time I wanted to really focus on the beauty and the fashion. So it took me some time until the retouch was like I want it to be. The hardest part was the flighing hairs. XD They are everywhere and they are way thinner than when a person wears a wig. But it looks more natrual and healthy natrual hair is so beautiful *-*


She is a very talented and beautiful Cutie! Go and check her blog out, it is far better than mine 8,D

www.suibui.blogspot.ch